The Need to "Know"

Why do people consult a psychic like myself? Somewhere within ourselves there is an innate need to "know" something that is outside of our five senses. Some want to know the future. Some want to know that a loved one on the other side is okay, or that they approve of a particular choice we may have made. Some want to know if the decisions they are making about their lives are the right ones.

What are some of the most common questions I am asked?

"Am I making the right career decision?"

"Is my love interest the "right" one?"

"Is he/she my soul mate?"

"What is my purpose?"

So here is the truth. You are in control of your life.

My job is not to tell you if he or she is "the one." The truth is, he or she may very well be the one, but that does not mean they are the forever person for you. You two may have made a soul agreement to be together for a specific period of time, and then part ways, either through choice or death. Maybe you agreed to work on a character issue together. Maybe one or the other of you agreed to be a catalyst for growth for the other.

If I, or another psychic, tells you that a specific person is your soul mate, and the relationship ends, does that mean that psychic was wrong? (by the way, I NEVER tell anyone that!) Does that mean you are doing something wrong if you leave the relationship or the other person chooses to end it? NO! As souls we choose to come together for various reasons. Forever is never guaranteed. (my hubby hates when I say this, but we agree that life is fragile and the present moment is all we really have!)

Nineteen years ago at the beginning of my journey with my husband, we were both told separately by different psychics that we would probably not make it as a couple. Despite that, just celebrated our eighteenth wedding anniversary. Had I listened to that psychic, I may have just decided to quit when times got tough. And yes, times get tough for every relationship. But I took my life into my own hands and decided I wanted this to work out and I could not imagine my life without him.

I always tell my clients that I sense what is going on in your energy field at the moment in time that I am tuning in. I intuit a probable trajectory based on the current energy surrounding a particular situation. However, it is up to you what decisions you make. You don't have to take my advice, and I would hope that you would not give me that much power over your life. I will give you insight into what paths may be in your best interests. I will help you avoid pitfalls and direct your course to your intended destination. But I am more like a GPS, telling you which way to go based on the coordinates you provide. It is your choice to follow those suggestions or to forge ahead on a completely different course.

If a particular choice seems right to you, it probably is. It may not last forever. It may just be a jumping off point for something else. It may seem right at the time, but after getting into it you may come to realize it was not the best decision. Any decision you make is a learning and growing experience. It is all up to you!

So, if you are in charge of your destiny, what is the benefit in seeing a psychic or spiritual intuitive?

When I tune in to your higher guidance system, your higher self, your Guides, or your loved ones on the other side may have beneficial information to assist you in making an informed decision. They may tell you the better choice between a variety of options. They may encourage you to keep going or to not give up. They may tell you of another person's true motives. They may even tell you to look in a particular direction for something important or even what your strengths and weaknesses are. They may warn you of a health concern or alert you to a limited belief that is hindering you from moving forward.

There are a lot of reasons to have a private session. However, it is also okay to live your life without the need to "know" everything that is going to happen before it does. If Spirit told you everything before it happened, it would be like that annoying friend who tells you the ending of a movie you've been wanting to see.

Your Guides will not interfere unless asked. They may save you from a pending tragedy and they may not. It all depends on what you as a soul contracted to do before you incarnated. They may give you spoiler alerts and they may not. They will always provide important clues to how you can best navigate your journey. They will assist in removing blocks or non-beneficial energy.

My favorite sessions with clients are the ones when, together, we navigate any energe